Normalise every offer to the same format
Financial aid letters are not standardised. One school lists tuition only; another lists full cost of attendance including an estimated personal-expenses figure. One calls a federal loan 'Direct Loan — Subsidized' under a heading that says 'Your Awards'; another separates it clearly. Comparing them as written is close to impossible, which is not entirely accidental.
Build a spreadsheet with one row per school and these columns: full cost of attendance, grants and scholarships, net price, loans offered, and work-study offered. Get the full cost of attendance from the school's website, not the letter, because letters sometimes omit housing or personal expenses.
Then compute net price as cost of attendance minus grants and scholarships. This is the only number that compares across offers. Keep loans visible in a separate column so you can see what each school is asking you to borrow.
Project four years, not one
First-year offers are systematically the most generous. Tuition rises roughly 3 to 5% annually at most institutions, and some schools front-load grant aid, so multiplying your first-year net price by four understates the real total. Ask each financial aid office directly whether your grant will scale with tuition increases.
If a school uses a co-op calendar — Northeastern, Drexel, and many engineering programs — the typical time to degree is five years, so budget accordingly. Co-op wages offset part of that, but you should model it rather than assume it balances out.
Merit scholarships deserve specific scrutiny. Ask in writing whether the award renews automatically for four years, what GPA is required to keep it, and what happens if you drop below that threshold for one semester. A $20,000 merit award requiring a 3.5 GPA in an engineering program with a brutal curve is a real risk, not a guarantee.
Appealing an offer
Financial aid appeals work more often than families expect, and they are not adversarial. Two grounds are genuinely effective. First, a change in circumstances the FAFSA did not capture — job loss, medical expenses, a death in the family, a business downturn. Write a brief factual letter, attach documentation, and ask for a professional-judgement review.
Second, a competing offer from a peer institution. This is more effective at schools that award merit aid and less effective at strictly need-based schools, which will generally tell you their formula is their formula. Be straightforward: state that the student wants to attend, name the competing offer and the gap, and ask whether the award can be reviewed. Do not bluff about offers you do not have.
Appeal after you have all your offers and before the deposit deadline, usually May 1. Call first to ask what the process is and who reviews it, then follow their instructions exactly.
